When I said Change, that wasn’t what I meant.
I’m feeling a bit blah today. My oldest friend here, and certainly the one who knows me best, just called to say she is moving in two weeks. To Seattle. And while I can’t think of a better change for her and her family, I am still sad for us.
We don’t see them that often, maybe once a month if we are lucky, but when we do our kids greet each other like family, play together like family - and fight like family. She has been there for me on countless occasions, patiently listening to me through every tiny crisis. I talk a lot if you let me, so she knows 600% more about me and my pathetic issues than I do about her.
Still, while I have other friends, she is the only one I would ever, ever, let see my house in a mess. Not that I ever have, but you know. It’s that kind of friendship.

Luckily, I still have bloggy friends and aquaintances.
And thanks to a well-timed Tweet from Chookooloonks, at least I remembered to buy the booze for tonight.
So let’s have a drink - or three - and hope for some positive change around here.

November 4th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
And here I am, no booze in sight. Too bad we don’t live closer, or I’d crash your party right now!
November 6th, 2008 at 9:26 pm
I’m really sorry that your friend is moving. Oddly, she’s moving to wear my closest friend moved away to…
I don’t have any sisters, so I know the panicky loss one can feel when a close female friend is leaving.
Hell, I cried when our pediatrician moved away.